Thomas “Tom” Tamandl

August 16th, 1945 - July 28th, 2022

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Tom was my entry-level Spanish teacher at Justin Morrill College at Michigan State in 1969-70. He was a very gifted and animated teacher. I've thought of him a few times over the years, wondering what became of his life. I just decided to do a search and, sadly, through his obituary, I now know. And I am delighted to learn he lived such a richly rewarding life. While we were not in touch all these many years, I still can speak and read some Spanish, thanks to him. My condolences to his family and wide circle of good friends.

Phil Nash, Denver, CO

September 6th, 2022 at 1:35pm

I am absolutely shocked and devastated to find that Tom has passed. I had moved to New Orleans for some time and was thinking before I came up recently how much I looked forward to contacting Tom and catching up. My heart hurts to find I am just a bit too late. He helped me through such a difficult time in my life and I used to come paint his house and clean out his rooms and fix his gardens and clean his yard. He'd cook me a nice breakfast and chat with me. His smile and positive attitude and the way he listened and his kindness really made some dark days better. I'll absolutely never forget him -- the world lost a remarkable human being.

Jackie

August 13th, 2022 at 5:15pm

I am the grandchild of Mable Hillman Schneider which was Tom’s mom’s sister. This would make him my 2nd cousin. I do remember him and how kind he always was and his comforting smile. I remember how welcoming he was whenever we spoke and when we met. He talked a lot about having a family reunion. I feel blessed to of crossed paths. He was truly a gentle soul. Rest in Peace cousin Tom

April Angeles((2nd cousin) on Mable Hillman Schneider side

August 7th, 2022 at 7:38am

The last time I saw Tom was at St. Basil’s at the funeral for Betty Davis. Tom was seated in the pew behind Jane and me; he tapped me on the shoulder. I turned around and there he was. We hugged and later had a good chat at the Yacht Club after the funeral. Tom was outstanding in many ways and will be remembered always for his sincere interest in people, his strong desire to always do the right thing, and his ever present caring and kindness. He was an exceptional athlete, an extraordinary student, a hard worker, a good businessman, and a great guy to know. Tom added to the lives of many, many people.

Jim Bauschke

August 5th, 2022 at 11:38am

Tom was an ineffable force of nature. Remarkably unique and gifted in so many human attributes. Intuitively compassionate and emotionally empathetic enhanced by a striking bilingual intelligence. A strong athlete Tom discovered that a fun way to still be fiercely competitive and athletic was playing frisbee. Here he found a fun sport where he could mix passion, with skill and ability, while staying positive and instructive. Life is not easy for people with so many natural gifts but Tom is a constant reminder that in our daily struggles we must never abandon the basics of all human understanding, kindness and love.

Sandy Jensen, Connell Davis and Family

August 4th, 2022 at 12:50pm

My sincere condolences to Tom’s family and also to my friend, Jean. I last saw Jean and Tom a month ago at my sister, Joanie’s, visitation. It was always a pleasure to run into Tom over the years and to chat. For some reason he always made me feel special. Now, reading all these memories from others, I see that was just his way with everyone. RIP Tom, I hope you and Joanie will have a great reunion. Give her a hug for me.
Andie

Andrea (Reznik) Johnson

August 3rd, 2022 at 10:19pm

I was so shocked and saddened to learn of Tom's passing. I worked with Tom at Michigan HRDI in Kalamazoo for this entire time there. Tom had the biggest heart and wanted to help as many people as he could. Whenever the front office needed someone to interpret those who only spoke Spanish, he was there to assist. Tom had a lot of stories and loved his Michigan State and went to as many games as possible. We had a lot of good talks. I am so sorry for your loss. He will be so missed.

Shirley

August 3rd, 2022 at 11:50am

To Tom's Family,

Tom and I were fraternity brothers at Michigan State. I was his "Big Brother" and he my "Little Brother" when he pledged. From that unique beginning, we developed a long-lasting friendship whose flames were rekindled whenever we would get together at a fraternity function. Those meeting were wonderful because, as his obituary stated, Tom epitomized "indomitable optimism." His enthusiasm for life and friendship was all-encompassing. My brothers and I are incredibly saddened by his sudden passing and extend our prayers and condolences to you all. Sent with love.

Mike Jolly

August 2nd, 2022 at 6:44pm

It's so difficult to capture what Uncle Tom meant to us in a few words. We both have very early memories of him being involved in our lives - he was a very loving and devoted uncle and spent tons of time with us as we were growing up. I (Kelley) learned many trick Frisbee throws from him at the beach and still enjoy it many decades later! He was always keenly interested in what was going on in our lives and with our kids and had a way of making you feel like there was no one else in the room when he was talking with you. He was the consummate optimist and that was always very refreshing. He always looked for the good in everyone - and usually found it. He missed Grandma terribly after she died...what a joyful reunion they must have had! We love you, Uncle Tom. You will be missed very much. Your loving nieces, Jill and Kelley

Jill and Kelley

August 2nd, 2022 at 6:41pm

Family of Tom, He was a wonderful human being. I loved him from the day I met him when he joined Central School in the 9th grade coming from St. Basils. He was my date to the Sadie Hawkins dance in the 9th grade. We used to talk about that eventful day when we would get together. He would stop by for late night talks and a snack when coming home from Kazoo at work. Enjoyed that tap tap tap on my dining room window and It was always Tom. You will be missed. !!!!

Brenda Fields Balfour

August 2nd, 2022 at 5:20pm

Though eight years older than me, Tom was one of those South Haven natives who seemed to treat you the same, year after year, from my childhood to chats at the Wellness Center in the last couple of years. Always smiling, always positive, he looked you in the eye and listened to what you had to say. That sort of communication is an endangered species these days. Though I don't know his family, I do want them to know he is not forgotten. Sincere, perpetual light is a rare thing. Grace back to you.